Another of my goals for this year was to return to my family history project. This began some years ago when #1 daughter did a project for National History Day on “An Immigrant Family.” She sent letters to family members and posted questions on the internet, got her information, did her project, won at the regional level, and was finished.
But the responses to her queries kept coming in. I was working at the time as Education Coordinator at a history museum, and it was natural for me to continue the research — I was poking my nose into lots of families, so why not my own? Over the past couple of years, though, I have neglected the project. This year, it got back onto my goals list. Inspired by Sighkey’s xanga (http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sighkey), and knowing that — at least for me — scheduling makes it much more likely that things will actually get done, I determined to devote some time on Tuesday mornings to the project.
So it was perfect when, last night, I got a call from a charming lady in Alabama who told me that there seemed to be a family member of mine buried in her family cemetery.
You might think that this would be a once-in-a-lifetime experience, but this is actually the second time for me. The first person who contacted me with this news knew how my family member had gotten there. He had died on the grounds of the ancestral home in question (there was a war on at the time) and the residents had been so kind as to bury him. The lady from Alabama and I are going to have to do some research to figure out what my kinswoman is doing in her plot.
Here is the beginning of a dull sock. It is being knitted in the same heather blue as the grunge mittens, and will probably end up just as grungy. I am resisting the temptation to add intarsia or cables or anything else, because the whole point is to have something dull to knit when I need respite from the interesting Hopkins. I feel sure that I cannot work on Celtic fretwork accurately while poring over old family letters and census records. A dull sock on a sleeve needle, however, requires no attention until I reach the heel.
Do you notice the sleeve needle? That is really the reason for the picture, since the dull sock is — well, too dull to have its protrait made. The sleeve needle, however, is a wonderful thing for those of us making socks and mittens, as well as those making sleeves. I’m told they are hard to find, but it’s worth the search. You can stick it in your purse, unlike a sock on dpns, and work on it while waiting for things.
Sleeve needle…is it just a short circular? I have one of those that my non-knitting mom gave to me the last time I saw her 🙂 Soon, I shall knit some socks. I just finally tackled DPNs the other day to finish that hat and they weren’t nearly as bad as I thought.
In response to your comment, there’s quite a bit more going on than I posted. Littleman’s dad is actually looking for a job so he can come back to the area. He has already said he’s fine with me quitting my job and supporting me and letting me finish school. There’s another job possibility on the horizon which would be great. A friend of mine will be looking for a nanny but probably not until April. That job has plenty of perks, not the least of which will be a paid apartment, and the ability to have Jack with me any time I need to. Her children are 15, 4 (same age as Jack, they are about a week apart) and just under a year old. She is still in the midst of finding work and a home though, so that’s nothing in the immediate future.
My gut tells me that staying in my job for more than a couple of weeks is not going to be worht the upset that’s going to be caused here, and that I’d do better to just focus fully on school. If I add another class or two, I could finish up at the end of this year, instead of April/May 06. There’s no advancement where I’m working now, the Associates degree will do me no good, they don’t base raises or anything on that. It really all boils down to guilt on my part, which I know is stupid because they’d drop me as an employee in an instant if it was to their advantage.
Thank you for your advice, fibermom 🙂
Now I’m all envious. US records go back to what, the 1600s? We can only go back to about the mid 1800s (if we’re lucky and then we have to guess our way through Australian and UK records. One branch of my family however (this is my genealogical brag) does go back to early settlers in Auckland. I lived in Auckland for a year as a kid. Gives you a weird feeling wandering through the NZ history part of a museum and having portraits of your ancestors pointed out to you.
Wow. I wish I would investigate my family history at all. Because my family came from places as varied and distant as France, China, and Vietnam, I don’t have the resources to explore. I wonder what, beyond just lineage, you would uncover in this endeavor. Peace.
Oh, and good call on Jemma and Victor’s characters. Unfortunately I never got to meet Victor but, from the stories I’ve heard ‘a romantic’ would be a somewhat accurate description.
Man that is so cool! Family history and people helping you figure out how your distant relatives got burried where! I have a big ol thing on my moms grandmothers side of the family, and next to nothing on my dads side of the family. I know that my dad’s side was half German half something else, and my moms side was totally English! Wish I knew more though.
Love the little knitting needle too. Wonder how it would work for baby hats! I’ll have to see if I can hunt one of those up. I’ll get to socks one day I hope. 🙂
I didn’t mind it. I only had three classes. It’s just that the week was already feeling long. And that was on Monday.
I gave up the internet for Lent, but it can’t be breaking my Lenten fast if I’m posting a comment on an entry I read months ago, can it? Eh? (sounds like a personal problem to me, hmmm LOL)
Just wanted you to know I refer to this entry in a recent post on my real non-Xanga blog, if you get some comments here. We’re not stalking you 😀